Shoe Sort Icebreaker

This game reminds us of how God sees the heart. In 1 Samuel 16, when Samuel is sent to choose a king, God tells him not to look at outward appearance. God looks at the heart. In the Shoe Sort game, youth try to guess who someone is based only on their shoes. It teaches them to look deeper. They learn not to judge too quickly.

The game also points to how Jesus knew people before they spoke. Think of the woman at the well or Zacchaeus in the tree. Jesus saw their hearts and called them by name. Youth in this game are invited to try that kind of seeing. They reflect on what shoes might say about someone’s life. It helps them think about how each person has a story.

This game helps youth slow down. It helps them listen and watch with care. That’s a skill that helps them grow in faith. It teaches them to value each person as made in the image of God. Even a worn-out shoe can lead to a moment of wonder or joy. And that can open their hearts to love the people around them more fully.

Materials Needed

• One pair of shoes from each person
• Large box or bin to hold the shoes
• String or yarn (optional, for tying shoes together)

Setup Instructions

1. Pick a safe and open space for the group to gather.
2. As youth arrive, ask each person to remove their shoes and place them in the box.
3. If possible, tie each pair of shoes together using string or laces to keep them matched.
4. Set the box of shoes in the center of the area.
5. Have everyone sit in a circle or semi-circle around the box.

Game Instructions

1. Choose one person to be the first “guesser.”
2. The leader picks a pair of shoes and holds them up for all to see.
3. The guesser looks at the shoes and shares three traits or guesses about the owner. For example: “I think this person likes hiking,” or “This person seems quiet.”
4. After giving three traits, the guesser tries to name the owner.
5. If the guess is right, the owner takes back their shoes. A new pair of shoes is chosen, and someone else becomes the guesser.
6. If the guess is wrong, the person who was guessed becomes the new guesser. They now describe and guess the owner of the same pair.
7. Keep playing until all shoes are returned to their owners.

Extra Notes

• This game works best in a group that is still getting to know each other.
• Remind players to be kind and respectful with their guesses.
• For safety, keep the shoe pile neat and avoid running or jumping while barefoot.
• If some youth are uncomfortable removing shoes, let them use hats, scarves, or other personal items instead.

What is the Shoe Sort Icebreaker game?

The Shoe Sort Icebreaker game is a fun way for youth to learn about each other. Players guess who owns each pair of shoes by sharing traits and making guesses.

How many people can play the Shoe Sort Icebreaker game?

This game works best with at least 6 players. It can also be used with large groups. Just give yourself more time.

What do I need for the Shoe Sort Icebreaker game?

You need a box and one pair of shoes from each person. You can also use string to tie shoes together.

What if someone doesn’t want to take off their shoes?

That’s okay. They can put in a different item, like a hat or scarf. Just make sure the item is safe and not too valuable.

Can this game be played indoors?

Yes. The Shoe Sort Icebreaker game works well in a large room or hall. Just make sure the floor is clean and safe for bare feet.

This game brings laughter, guessing, and lots of learning. It gets youth thinking in a new way. They start looking past the outside and thinking about the person behind the shoes. That builds stronger groups and deeper respect.

Young people like games that are silly but also meaningful. This one does both. It gives them a way to laugh and play while also growing closer to each other. It builds trust without pressure.

It also connects easily to faith. When we try to guess a person based on just their shoes, we remember how God sees the whole person. God knows each of us deeply. This game gives youth a small way to practice that kind of knowing.

So, don’t let the shoes fool you. This light-hearted activity gives youth space to grow in kindness, attention, and joy. That’s a solid foundation for any faith group.

If you’re looking for a fun and simple way to get your youth group talking, try this game. It’s easy to set up and brings out smiles right away. Your group will enjoy the guessing, and you’ll enjoy watching them connect.

Have you played this with your youth? Share your own twist in the comments. Let others know what worked best or what you changed. We’d love to hear how you made this activity work for your group.