Where Have You Been?

Reflection on the Passion of Jesus Christ

Reflecting on the Passion of Jesus Christ, which tells the story of his suffering and death, is a crucial aspect of understanding the depth of God’s love for humanity. This reflection is designed to guide youth through the narrative of the Passion of Jesus Christ and encourage them to contemplate the significance of Jesus’ sacrifice.

Specifically, this reflection focuses on the sentencing of Jesus, as recounted in the Gospel of Mark. While the scripture is taken from Passion of Jesus Christ from the Gospel of Mark, which is used in Year B, it can be adapted for any year.

To facilitate the reflection on the Passion of Jesus, it is recommended that one person read the scripture while another reads the meditation. This approach can help youth engage with the narrative more deeply and gain a greater appreciation for the magnitude of Jesus’ sacrifice.

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• Can you think of a time when somebody you know was unfairly accused?
• Have you ever been accused of something you didn’t do?
• Did you wish that somebody would speak up for you and defend you?

We are going to read part of the Passion of Jesus Christ from the Gospel of Mark. Then we are going to put ourselves in the scene. We will do this in parts, first reading a few verses of the Passion of Jesus and then describe what we might experience if we were there. 

They led Jesus away to the high priest, and all the chief priests and the elders and the scribes came together. Peter followed him at a distance into the high priest’s courtyard and was seated with the guards, warming himself at the fire.

It is very early in the morning and is still dark. You find yourself in a courtroom.  There are candles burning, but the light is dim. If you stay to the side, nobody will see or notice you. As you made your way in, you recognized a few of Jesus’ other followers there. But they either don’t enter the main courtroom, or they stay in the shadows, and away from the center, where the priests and elders have gathered.

The chief priests and the entire Sanhedrin kept trying to obtain testimony against Jesus  in order to put him to death, but they found none. Many gave false witness against him, but their testimony did not agree. Some took the stand and testified falsely against him,  alleging, “We heard him say, ‘I will destroy this temple made with hands and within three days I will build another not made with hands.’” Even so their testimony did not agree.

The testimony of the witnesses is all wrong. Some are twisting his words to make them mean something else. Others are just lying. You could go forward and speak up for Jesus. You could set the record straight. But there are a lot of guards here. And you look at Jesus. His hands are tied. He is in serious trouble. You convince yourself that there is nothing you can do to change the situation. So why even try?

The high priest rose before the assembly and questioned Jesus, saying, “Have you no answer? What are these men testifying against you?” But he was silent and answered nothing.

Why doesn’t Jesus say anything? He should tell them that he didn’t really mean everything he said. Maybe he could convince them to let him go. But he is silent. The priests seem so angry. They ask if there are any other witnesses. You wait to see if anyone else comes forward. Maybe if one or two of Jesus’ other disciples would speak for him, then you would say something also. But there is nothing but silence.

Again the high priest asked him and said to him,  “Are you the Christ, the son of the Blessed One?” Then Jesus answered, “I am; and ‘you will see the Son of Man seated at the right hand of the Power and coming with the clouds of heaven.’” At that the high priest tore his garments and said, “What further need have we of witnesses? You have heard the blasphemy. What do you think?”

You can’t believe your ears. He said it so softly, but with such confidence. Why did he say that? Now they are really upset. And blasphemy means death!  You shrink as far back into the shadows as you can. Your back is pressed against the stone wall. It is cold and hard. 

They all condemned him as deserving to die. Some began to spit on him. They blindfolded him and struck him and said to him, “Prophesy!” And the guards greeted him with blows. 

Your heart breaks as you hear the death sentence. And then they start to abuse him and make fun of him. His head is bleeding where they struck him. You’d like to go wipe his face, but you know they would probably hit you also. Or even worse, arrest you. So you stay where you are.

While Peter was below in the courtyard, one of the high priest’s maids came along. Seeing Peter warming himself, she looked intently at him and said, “You too were with the Nazarene, Jesus.” But he denied it saying, “I neither know nor understand what you are talking about.” So he went out into the outer court. Then the rooster crowed.

Peter is supposed to be a leader. Jesus said so himself. If Peter doesn’t speak up, then why should you? If only somebody would say or do something.

The maid saw him and began again to say to the bystanders, “This man is one of them.” Once again he denied it. A little later the bystanders said to Peter once more, “Surely you are one of them; for you too are a Galilean.” He began to curse and to swear,  “I do not know this man about whom you are talking.” And immediately a rooster crowed a second time. Then Peter remembered the word that Jesus had said to him, “Before the rooster crows twice you will deny me three times.” He broke down and wept.

You are disappointed in Peter. But as you see Peter weeping, you realize that he is disappointed in himself. Like you, he’d like to do something, but he lacks the courage. Then you feel a wet tear running down your own cheek.

As soon as morning came,  the chief priests with the elders and the scribes, that is, the whole Sanhedrin held a council. They bound Jesus, led him away, and handed him over to Pilate.

They lead Jesus past you. He is bloody and bruised. His eyes are downcast. You follow at a distance as they walk toward the governor’s palace. The sun has risen, but you are cold. The road seems especially dusty and rocky. As you walk along, you can hear the people ahead yelling at Jesus. But what can you do? You are just one person.

Pilate questioned him, “Are you the king of the Jews?” He said to him in reply, “You say so.” The chief priests accused him of many things. Again Pilate questioned him, “Have you no answer? See how many things they accuse you of.” Jesus gave him no further answer, so that Pilate was amazed.

Now Jesus is silent again. He seems defeated. You have seen him work mighty miracles in the past. Why doesn’t he do something now. Perhaps they would be afraid to execute him then. You almost want to step forward and suggest it, but you don’t.

Now on the occasion of the feast he used to release to them one prisoner whom they requested. A man called Barabbas was then in prison along with the rebels who had committed murder in a rebellion. The crowd came forward and began to ask him to do for them as he was accustomed. Pilate answered, “Do you want me to release to you the king of the Jews?” For he knew that it was out of envy that the chief priests had handed him over.

At last! There is a chance Jesus could be released. You feel some relief . You didn’t have to say anything after all. Everything will work out just fine.

But the chief priests stirred up the crowd to have him release Barabbas for them instead. Pilate again said to them in reply, “Then what do you want me to do with the man you call the king of the Jews?” They shouted again, “Crucify him.” Pilate said to them, “Why?  What evil has he done?” They only shouted the louder, “Crucify him.”

Once again, your heart sinks. The priests are never going to let Pilate release Jesus. Everyone around you is raising their fists in the air and shouting “Crucify him!” An especially burly man next to you is doing it with enthusiasm. He looks at you and seems to notice that you are silent. He even stops yelling as he gives you a hard stare. You become afraid. Is he going to start a fight with you or turn you in. Timidly, you raise your fist in the air. He is still staring. Then you say “crucify him”, but not very loud. He is still staring. Finally you say it a little louder. He seems satisfied and continues with his own chant.

So Pilate, wishing to satisfy the crowd, released Barabbas to them and, after he had Jesus scourged, handed him over to be crucified. The soldiers led him away inside the palace,  that is, the praetorium, and assembled the whole cohort. They clothed him in purple and,  weaving a crown of thorns, placed it on him. They began to salute him with, “Hail, King of the Jews!” and kept striking his head with a reed and spitting upon him. They knelt before him in homage. And when they had mocked him, they stripped him of the purple cloak, dressed him in his own clothes, and led him out to crucify him.

Jesus is so bloody you hardly recognize him. His face  is covered with blood from the thorns. They have pressed them deep into his head.  His body is covered with blood from the scourging. You see them bringing the heavy cross for him to carry.  

As they walk past you, Jesus turns to you and says, “My beloved friend, where have you been? I’ve been looking for you. Just the sight of your face gives me strength. You cannot change where I need to go, but you can go with me, so I do not have to be alone.’

How do you answer Jesus?

• Why didn’t Jesus try to escape his passion and death? Why did he willingly undergo a brutal crucifixion?
• Do you understand why Jesus’ friends deserted him? What would you have done?
• Pilate seemed reluctant to crucify Jesus, but he did it anyway? Why?
• What are some ways which you can walk with Jesus?
• Who can you turn to when the path of discipleship seems too difficult?

Jesus, I know sometimes I lack the courage to do what is right. I convince myself that my efforts won’t make a difference anyway. I fear what others will think. Please forgive my weakness. Send your Holy Spirit to give me courage. I want to walk with you.

Suggested Music Resources for the Passion of Jesus Christ

• At the Cross her Station Keeping (Stabat Mater Doloros)
• Were You There When They Crucified My Lord?
• O Sacred Head, Now Wounded
• You Were on the Cross by Matt Maher
• Fortunate Fall by Audrey Assad

First Person Stations of the Cross

This mediation will take youth through the way of the cross. They will see each station as if they were there. The prayers are meant to relate to their own lives. This is appropriate during Lent or even if you will be offering youth an opportunity for reconciliation soon. This is another way to reflect on the Passion of Jesus Christ.

More Lenten Resources

Lent is a time to answer the call to conversion. For forty days we turn back to God with prayer and honest hearts. Catholics practice self discipline during this season. We abstain from meat on Fridays and choose other small sacrifices. These simple acts help us remember Christ’s sacrifice. They teach us to rely less on comfort and more on God’s grace each day.

On Good Friday, we pause in a special way to reflect on the Passion of Jesus Christ. We remember his suffering, his Cross, and his great love for us. This day invites quiet prayer and gratitude. If you are looking for ways to grow this Lent, see our full collection of Lenten resources. It includes over 75 ideas for prayer, fasting, and almsgiving.

Crown of Love and Sorrow

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What age group works best for this reflection on the Passion of Jesus?

This reflection on the Passion of Jesus works well with middle school and high school youth. It can also be used with young adults. For younger children, you may need to shorten it. You can also simplify some of the questions. Always consider the maturity level of your group. The theme of fear and courage connects with many ages.

How long does this reflection on the Passion of Jesus take?

Plan for about 30 to 45 minutes. If you include longer sharing time, it may take an hour. You can shorten it by reading fewer scripture passages. You can also lengthen it by adding quiet prayer or music. Build in time for silence. Do not rush the ending.

Do I need to prepare anything in advance?

Yes. Read through the reflection on the Passion of Jesus ahead of time. Choose readers. Make sure they are comfortable reading slowly and clearly. Set up the room in a simple way. Dim lighting can help create a prayerful mood. Remind the group that this is a time for respect and quiet listening.

How can I help youth enter into the scene?

Encourage them to imagine what they see, hear, and feel. Speak slowly. Pause after key moments. Allow silence. Let them sit with the discomfort. Do not explain everything. Trust the story. Afterward, ask open questions. Give them time to think before they answer.

What if students do not want to share?

That is okay. Do not force anyone to speak. Some youth process quietly. You can invite written responses instead. Journaling works well with this reflection on the Passion of Jesus. You can also break into small groups. Smaller settings often feel safer for sharing.

Can this reflection be used outside of Lent?

Yes. This reflection on the Passion of Jesus fits well during Lent and Holy Week. It can also be used at retreats or during lessons on the Gospel of Mark. The themes of courage, fear, and discipleship are always relevant. Choose a time when your group can slow down and focus.

How do I close the session in a meaningful way?

End with the provided prayer or invite spontaneous prayer. You may also play quiet music. Keep the tone calm. Remind the group that Jesus calls each of us by name. Encourage them to think about how they will walk with him this week. Keep the closing simple and sincere.

This reflection on the Passion of Jesus invites us to look at our own hearts. It is easy to judge Peter. It is easy to judge the crowd. But when we stand in the shadows, we see ourselves. We see our fear. We see our silence. We see the times we chose comfort instead of courage. The story is not only about long ago. It is about today.

The reflection on the Passion of Jesus reminds us that Jesus sees us. He sees us when we hide. He sees us when we fail. He does not turn away. Instead, he calls us his beloved friend. He asks us to walk with him. We may not be able to change the Cross. But we can choose to stay near him.

This reflection on the Passion of Jesus also gives hope. Peter wept, but he was forgiven. The disciples ran, but they were called back. Jesus knows our weakness. He still invites us to follow him. When we answer his question, “Where have you been?” we can begin again. We can walk with him, even if our steps are small and unsure.

Try this reflection on the Passion of Jesus with your youth group, class, or family. Read the Gospel slowly. Pause often. Let different voices read the scripture and the meditation. Sit quietly after each part. Allow space for honest thoughts and feelings. Do not rush the silence.

After you try this reflection on the Passion of Jesus, share your experience. What stood out to you? How did your group respond? Did you change or add anything? Leave your ideas and notes in the comment section. Your insights may help others lead this prayer in their own way.