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Human Knot Game (For Youth Ministry or VBS)

The Human Knot Game and Mary

You might know that Pope Francis has promoted devotion to Mary “Our Lady Untier of Knots”. The Human Knot game is a fun activity to add into a teaching about this devotion.

If you are not familiar with the devotion to Our Lady Untier of Knots or Our Lady Undoer of Knots, it relates back to what Saint Irenaeus said in the second century. “The knot of Eve’s disobedience was loosed by the obedience of Mary. For what the virgin Eve had bound fast through unbelief, this did the virgin Mary set free through faith.”

A painting by Johann Georg Melchior Schmidtner which depicts Mary untying a knot is also often associated with the devotion. The devotion often has special significance to those who are struggling with problems which don’t seem to have a solution.

So if you are introducing this devotion to your youth and want to add a game in which is loosely related, try this Human Knot game. Since it is a cooperative game also makes a fun team building activity.

Human Knot Game

This game encourages problem solving and teamwork



  • Have all of the player stand in a tight circle.
  • Instruct everyone to put their right hands in and find another free hand to hold.
  • While continuing to hold right hands, have everyone put their left hand in and find another free left hand to hold. At this point, you should have a big “knot”.
  • While holding hands, try to “untie” the knot. This will involve stepping over and under other people’s hands.
  • The goal is to have everyone untangled and standing in a circle without ever breaking their grip on each other’s hands.


Sometimes you will end up with two separate circles. This is OK. It just depends how the people grab each other’s hands at the beginning.They should try not to grab the hand of the person right next to them. The idea is to start with a knot.

For additional challenge, instruct some members that they cannot talk or blindfold some members. This works well if you have a few members who seem to always take charge and you want to encourage others to step into a leadership role.

For older groups, try adding some debrief questions at the end. What worked and what didn’t work? How did communication play a role in this activity? What leadership skills did they need to use? Did they ever feel like they wouldn’t be able to accomplish the goal?

More Resources

Our Lady, Undoer of Knots

Learn more about the feast day of Our Lady, Untier of Knots. Her feast day is September 28.

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Pope Francis’ Prayer to Mary Undoer of Knots

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Printable Copy of Game

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